Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Creating Traditions

    Christmas has always been my favorite holiday of the year. I love the glittery decorations, festive songs and, of course, the exchanging of gifts on Christmas morning. My favorite Christmas memories are the ones from my childhood.  Christmas time at my house was filled with anticipation. My mom worked hard to make it a memorable and special day for all of us.   Every Christmas Eve we would watch a very old version of Charles Dickens,  "A Christmas Carol."  Before we went to bed, we would be allowed to open one gift. Looking back, I think my mom strategically made sure that the one gift we opened was not a toy, so that we would actually sleep that night. After I went to bed, I would lie awake for hours listening to my parents wrapping gifts, placing presents under the tree and filling our stockings.  When Christmas morning finally came, I was always the first kid awake. My family is very large, so it took a long time for everyone to make it out of bed. While I waited for my siblings to wake up, my mom would allow me to open my stocking. Our stockings were always bursting at the seams with exciting new treasures. Along with the new trinkets, mom would always include one Clementine, a sample box of chocolates, and a pack of gum. I always looked forward to that box of chocolates most. (Interesting, I still look forward to chocolate the most.)  Once everyone had opened their stockings, we would gather together and listen while Dad read Luke's account of the birth of Jesus. Then it was time to open presents. Yay!
     So, why the memoir of Christmas past? When I look back at my childhood Christmases I see a lot of traditions. Some traditions were purely for the enjoyment of doing an activity together as a family, like watching "A Christmas Carol." Others,  such as reading the Bible on Christmas morning,  were important to us because they reminded us of what the season was really about.  Now the challenge for me, as a mom, is to establish traditions that are fun and create happy memories for our son, but also point to Jesus. My husband and I want our family to spend the Christmas season focused on Christ and on the greatness of the gift He gave to us: His very life. How do we do that? Well, I'm still not entirely sure, but I have some ideas. 
1st: Advent Calendar
This Christmas our son is finally old enough to appreciate an advent calendar. (See how I made this by reading Simple Advent Calendar ) Beginning 12 days before Christmas, we will open the calendar and read a part of the Christmas story.
2nd: Watch a Movie
We want to make watching the movie, "The Nativity Story," a family tradition. This movie is our favorite because of how beautifully and realistically it tells the story of Jesus' birth.
3rd: Learn Christmas Carols
Each week, we want to learn the words to a new Christmas carol. There are many carols that  focus on Jesus and his birth, but right now I couldn't get through more than the first verse if my life depended on it!
4th: Stocking gifts
This year, instead of allowing the gift exchange to get out of control, like it usually does, we will try to limit our gift giving to what will fit in a stocking. Meaningful gifts, but not expensive. And no, putting $100.00 gift cards in the stockings will not be allowed even if they do fit.
    These are just a few traditions that we will be implementing this year.  I have included a list of additional ideas that we may or may not use, but thought you might enjoy. If you have a tradition that your family appreciates, please share by posting a comment. Maybe we will use your idea this Christmas!

Additional Tradition Ideas: 
1. Christmas Pajamas- Every Christmas each member of the family receives a new pair of      pajamas. Consider taking a picture of everyone in their pajamas.
2. Visit a nursing home on Christmas Eve.
3. Go Christmas caroling. 
4. Read Luke's account of the Christmas story.
5. Learn Christmas songs.
6. Let the kids set up a nativity.
7. Send out a family Christmas card.
8. Starting around Thanksgiving, hang a stocking, in your home for a needy person or family. Family members can start depositing gifts or money in the stocking to be delivered to the needy family on Christmas day.

Update on 12-7-11: Here are a few of the ideas you passed on to me after reading my blog.

1.  Baby Jesus is missing from the nativity until he appears Christmas morning. Also, the wise men start at the opposite end of the house and "travel" back to the nativity.

2.  Memorize Luke 2 and quote it on Christmas morning.

3.  Read Luke 2 on Christmas Eve, and then at the moment in the story when Jesus is born  light a  "Christ Candle" - a large pillar candle. Keep it burning until after the kids go to bed and  light it again, before they're up on Christmas morning. Keep it burning all day.

Remember, I would love to know what you do to celebrate the birth of Christ with your family! Merry Christmas and God bless!

1 comment:

Georgeff said...

Agree and like.
But..."Additional Tradition Ideas" #1 makes me think of awkward family photos....:D